The Happiness Gap: Why Deep Thinkers Often Feel Behind, and Why They’re Not

What Defines Your Happiness?

Happiness is not simply a byproduct of external achievements, it is largely shaped by the way we define success for ourselves. Whether we feel fulfilled or dissatisfied often depends on the standards we choose to measure our lives by.

I might be operating at a level 20 in terms of consciousness, deeply aware, introspective, and continuously evolving, while someone functioning at a level 2, with minimal self-awareness or personal development, is making far more money than I am. This scenario isn’t uncommon; in fact, it happens all the time. Many highly conscious, growth-oriented individuals find themselves earning less than those who are primarily focused on financial gain.

But does that mean the person at level 2 is more successful than the person at level 20? The answer depends entirely on how one defines success.

If success is measured purely by wealth, then yes, the person with more money is objectively "winning" by that standard. But if success is defined by personal growth, self-awareness, and the depth of one’s understanding of life, then the higher-consciousness individual is far ahead.

Ultimately, success is subjective. Some chase external achievements, while others prioritize internal evolution. The real question is: What Matters More To You?